Sorry the post on micro.blog didn’t include a link back to your post. Trying to sort that bit out with WordPress, so it happens automatically.

Getting plugged in โ€“ part 3: getting it wrong (Social Thoughts)
Part of the learning process is getting things wrong but even this can have its advantages.

I’ve been encountering similar hurdles to the one’s described in this series of posts. Webmentions in particular seem to be an architectural pain point. Or tricky to implement, at least. I’ve been playing withย CouchDB, and I thinkย I may have an idea on how to leverage it to handle webmentions. More to come soon!